Summer is Over and Changes are Just Around the Corner

A lot has transpired in the last few months at the Casa and as usual life around here has been crazy to say the least. At the beginning of the summer Lego Man moved home. Lego Man has been asking for a long time and over the last six months, he keeps telling me, he wants to stay here. It wasn't an easy decision and one Sniper and I have been talking about for over a year. We were going to wait until Sniper was home permanently, but we talked it out and Lego Man needed to be here and it was the best decision we could have made. Now, before you go thinking , "What parent wouldn't want there child to live with them?" It's not as simple as that. My son is Bi-Polar and can be more than just a handful. I knew something wasn't right with him when he was 18 months old and by the time he was 7 he tried to commit suicide....twice. After a long, agonizing stay at a children's phys hospital I brought him home and realized I wasn't what my son needed. At this point I was even contemplating suicide myself. I was beyond exhaustion, physically & mentally. He needed a strong upper hand. How can I say this? My son also has a extreme temper and a violent one to boot. My daughter, Drama Queen and I both have been at the receiving end of it countless time. Yes, we both have been hit, punched, kicked and many of objects (furniture is included in this) have came flying at us from all directions. In the best interest of my son, I let my son move in with his father..... After several years of therapy, maturity, and huge help from Sniper he has become a changed kid. Sniper has worked very hard on helping Lego Man to control his temper. Some how the two of them can relate on the violent tendencies that can come over you quickly and how to step back and control them. Getting off track here, so back to this summer..... July I finished and passed the last of my exams. Now the hard part will start sometime in the near future when I "Flip Over" and become a Financial Advisor. I have been going back and forth over the last several months if I truly wanted this. It's not an easy career, but I have dreamed about if for years. It will be a long road of endless hours away from home and my family. However, I will be able to provide a rewarding future for all of us and it will allow Sniper to enjoy life at home with us....I will elaborate more. At the end of July, all our family was under one roof. All FIVE kids, Sniper & I for almost three weeks. Sniper's two youngest boys, Duder and Roo came home from Washington. It was exhilarating and exhausting all at once. The house was never quiet. Even though there is only 7 of us, we always seemed to have at least a few extra kids (either Bubba's friends or our niece and nephews and sometimes a mixture of both). WE stayed extremely busy.....endless nights of Family Guitar Hero, a Family Baseball Game, River Cats Game (local Baseball team), Family Movie Nights, BBQ's and Cooking for this whole crew....WOW!!!! Cooking for at least 10 people was a new experience. Then you have keeping up with a house with all these people here. Dishes and laundry seem to be the two huge one's. We averaged 2 loads of dishes and at least four loads of laundry a day (I can't wait to see what the water bill we be like, especially adding there were at least 10 showers a day). Sniper took care of the house. Everyday he handed out chores to everyone and if you didn't technically live here (the extended family and friends), don't worry you had your list to do was well. It was cute to come home from work and listen to who had what to do. One of Bubba's friends, at the age of 16, had never done dishes before. Well lets just say he CAN do them. We all had a wonderful time together and life was never boring or dull. And that brings us to the present.......everyone is now gone again. Duder and Roo back to Washington, Sniper at Camp Pendleton, Bubba back home and Lego Man, Drama Queen and I in a very quiet house. But, there is some changes coming soon. One that deserves a post all of it's own. It has to do with my FAVORITE Marine, Man.......MY husband, Sniper. Stay tuned, you won't want to miss it. Dyzgoneby