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    Name: dyzgoneby
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    I am married to a wonderful Marine and a mother of 5 darling children. Sniper has been home from his second tour in the Shitbox since July 2006. This will be my rants, raves and rumblings with my life with him as a Marine Wife, him dealing with life post Iraq and the Marine Corps next adventure for us. At times I may whine, I may cry and there maybe times I just don't make any sense and you think WTF. These are my feelings and my feelings alone. If you don't like what I have to say, click the "X" in the right corner and move on. Thank a vet for having that choice. If not, sit back and enjoy the peak into my crazy world.

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    Thursday, February 14, 2008

    Still Here and still Adjusting

    It's been almost five months since the last time I posted anything. I just wanted to enjoy the time at home with our family adjusting. I have had so many things I have wanted to post or say, good and bad, but it is been hard to put my thoughts down and publish it. I have kept it all bottled up inside. Sniper keeps commeting that he misses all the posts I use to write. So this one is for you.

    It has been a huge adjustment on all of us.

    Just because someone becomes a civilian overnight does not mean anything will change. Issues that were there do not change in one day. He has been out of the Marine Corps for five months now and it has been difficult, frustrating, sad, depressing, happy, invigrating, joyful...you all get the picture. The Marine Corps is his life and whom he is. Somethings will never change.

    He is at home being a "House Dad" "House Hubby" or my favorite "House Bitch." The kids love having him home all day and I love having him at home too. It has given him time to readjust to a life he hasn't lived in years. It also gives him a chance to heal. Thankfully because we were able to plan for it, it has given him a chance to not worry about the financial part (for now).

    This week has been a long one for us all.

    Monday, was 2 years ago when SSgt Iceman and SSgt Sniper met that fateful day that changed so many lives. A day none of us will ever forget and some that will relive everyday. Anyone who read this blog, knows exactly what I am talking about. You can see it here.

    That day changed the path that has lead Sniper where he is at today (amongst a few others). I watch those eyes of his that burrow into his soul and there are so many times I see the emptiness, the sadnes and the hatred. His eyes tell more than his words. I still sit here day after day unable to help him, still helpless.

    Sniper has a favorite saying "For those who protect it, Freedom has a taste the protected will never know."

    Those words are so true on so many different levels. As a civilain, I will never understand, as a wife I will understand more than most. I relive so many of those times with him. Many things he never wanted me to know. Some he doesn't know or remember I know. Most I have seen through his eyes, his words, his actions and one I have seen through the video.

    Dyzgoneby

    aka Mrs. Sniper
    "Yea though I walk through the valley of death, I will fear no evil: for Thou art with me."

    I hope and pray SSgt Iceman and his family have found some peace.

    posted by dyzgoneby at 2/14/2008 08:47:00 AM

    Comments on "Still Here and still Adjusting"

     

    Anonymous Anonymous said ... (8:16 AM) : 

    Boy, I have missed your postings. I'm glad to know how your doing.

    your anonymous friend who almost had your parallel life except for the happily ever after, Val

     

    Anonymous Anonymous said ... (8:09 AM) : 

    I'm glad to see you posting again. I've been worried about you. You two are so lucky to have each other.
    From the mom of one of Snipers Marines - he really learned a lot from his leadership.

     

    Blogger kbug said ... (8:55 PM) : 

    Good to see you posting again, Dyz. I'm glad to know that you are all adjusting to civilian life. Having each other helps in so many ways, probably in more ways than any of us know. Keep on keeping on, and keep on posting...we've all missed you. Take care of each other..... :)

     

    Anonymous Anonymous said ... (6:50 AM) : 

    Hello,

    I'd just like to drop you a quick note here.....I found your blog some time ago, and, as a soldier/military veteran, I'd just like to say that Iv'e enjoyed reading it.....

    I was wondering if you'd be willing to include a link to my Miliary-related company, Duffle-Bag Depot, on your blog?......

    This is our banner.....(if you use it...)
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    and, could you link to "http://www.militarysmartbooks.org".....?

    In exchange, currently I have a Facebook group that gains several thousand new members a day....I would be willing to post a direct clickable link to your blog there.....what do you think?

    Thank you and take care,
    Howie

     

    Anonymous Anonymous said ... (1:43 PM) : 

    "I watch those eyes of his that burrow into his soul and there are so many times I see the emptiness, the sadnes and the hatred. His eyes tell more than his words. I still sit here day after day unable to help him, still helpless."

    Wow... those could be my words too... My husband is also a Marine Corps Veteran. It has been years since he has been out and I still see that look in his eyes... It's heartbreaking, isn't it?

     

    Anonymous Anonymous said ... (10:49 PM) : 

    hey woman...
    its me, your ladybug friend...
    left you the linky-dink to my blog... email sometime, ok??? i miss you!

    love,
    me

     

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