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    Name: dyzgoneby
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    I am married to a wonderful Marine and a mother of 5 darling children. Sniper has been home from his second tour in the Shitbox since July 2006. This will be my rants, raves and rumblings with my life with him as a Marine Wife, him dealing with life post Iraq and the Marine Corps next adventure for us. At times I may whine, I may cry and there maybe times I just don't make any sense and you think WTF. These are my feelings and my feelings alone. If you don't like what I have to say, click the "X" in the right corner and move on. Thank a vet for having that choice. If not, sit back and enjoy the peak into my crazy world.

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    Friday, May 05, 2006

    100 Days Down

    As of 0815 this morning Sniper has been gone 100 days and way too many more to go. Yes, I am a little weird and have the days down to the minute. I also know the days, weeks and months left to go. A little obsessive if you ask me.

    The first 6 weeks were extremely hard. Now, it is just a day here and there. I was told it gets easier in someways and my mind couldn't comprehend this. I get it now. Some days and weeks have flown by and others have just dragged. It does seem like forever since the last time I saw him.

    What keeps me going? The obvious, my love for him.

    I still hear from other's, I don't know how you do it? You just do. If you love someone that much in your heart, you will do whatever it takes. You don't just cut and run simply because someone is gone for awhile. Being connected in heart to a Military person you have a simple choice, you either accept it or you move on. For me, I accept and am damn proud of him. Does it make a difference that we are not married? Nope, my love is no different.

    Something else that has kept me going, all the support I have received from all of you, my support boards and writing here. Thank you. My family doesn't understand like all of you do. The Marine and military families I have connected with have been amazing.

    I look forward to small bench marks. A call from him, our memories of the times we shared and the new ones we will make and getting through these damn tests for us for our future.

    Again, thank you all for all the support. Don't worry, I'm not going anywhere.


    dyzgoneby
    326 days to go, give or take a few

    posted by dyzgoneby at 5/05/2006 05:16:00 AM

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    Blogger Christy said ... (7:26 AM) : 

    WOO HOO 100 days down. Lets Partay! You are right those outside the military stuff does not understand everything. I will admit until I was left alone for a year to raise kids, deal with a house and everything else I would have never known either. You are so right when you love someone there is nothing you won't do for them. You handle things to the best of your ability and that is the end of the story. You just do it! You learn exactly how strong you are and you learn alot about each other as well.

    We love you guys my dear. WE are all here for you because without support it is so much harder to deal with it.

     

    Blogger Call Me Grandma said ... (12:59 PM) : 

    wait until the last two months, they really drag.

     

    Blogger Stacy said ... (2:27 PM) : 

    It does get easier, then at the end, OMG, like military mom, it drags and drags, but it all works out when they are home safely.

    Keep up the studying it will pay off for you and your family.

     

    Blogger dyzgoneby said ... (12:42 PM) : 

    Christy....I have found those on the outside, just don't get it. There loss. I too have found a strenght I didn't know was inside of me.

    A military mom....That's what I have been told and I for one am dreading the "hurry up and wait" philosophy.

    Stacy....Thanks for the well wishes on the studying. There are some sayings I can't wait to put behind me, besides the "hurry up and wait" there is the "no news is good news." I know he can't wait to come home.

    Counting down to homecoming sucks.....

     

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